Relationships
What Do You Want?

Have you ever thought about what you want in your future spouse? I mean really come up with some qualities you want in someone-some standards? Have you let yourself dream?

Well here's your chance! I challenge you to come up with your "dream" list for the guy or gal you want! Here are some suggestions:

Must accept me for who I am
Must be gentle
Wants to have kids
Is funny/smart/kind/romantic/practical/wise/honest/real/loyal/commited/strong
Has a good work ethic
Puts God first
Wise with money
Likes to laugh
Loves me

These are just a few. I suggest making two columns when you make your list: non-negotiables and negotiables. This way you can separate what you absolutely will not bend on and the desires that you would really like but don't have to have. You may think you don't deserve someone great, but let me tell you that you were created as a precious treasure, and no matter what lies in your past or what baggage you may carry, it does not mean you deserve less! Dream big and have fun!

Resource

When God Writes Your Love Story : The Ultimate Approach to Guy/Girl Relationships
Eric & Leslie Ludy

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